Victimization is Real.
Bad things happen to us. There is no denying that.
Feeling like a victim from that victimization is real and it's healthy.
Victimhood is NOT healthy. Victimhood is a choice.
Victimhood is when being a victim takes over your life as a permanent house guest. When the payoff for milking the victimization is greater than the healing from it.
Are you taking up residency in victimhood?
Are you letting your past OWN your future? Until you step out of the victim state you will always be a victim of your past experiences and that is no way to go through life.