Can we judge someone else’s integrity by our own standard?
I was talking with a woman about how my friends are always late. If I want them to be somewhere at 10 I have to lie and say we need to be there at 8.
She said to me “I can’t stand that. They are so out of integrity.”
I asked her “who’s integrity? They have absolutely no problem with how they show up. They feel like they are in integrity.”
Do we have a right to determine someone else’s relationship with integrity?